So I was told to try and address things on forum.

That being said, there is another discussion and the rules there seemed universal enough to me, to be applied through all of the RPs and players in CD.

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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 13px; vertical-align: baseline; background-image: initial; background-position: 0px 0px; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.7; font-family: 'Open Sans';">My issue with that is, whilst it sounds really nice and perfect, what do you do when someone clearly does NOT have any inkling of a desire to actually come up with a peaceful solution, even if you approach them, what is there left for you to do?</p>
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