Ok, this is going to seem a little strange, but I think that everyone should read these few lyrics from the song, Damn It Feels Good To Be A Gangsta by Geto Boys:

Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
A real gangsta-ass nigga plays his cards right
A real gangsta-ass nigga never runs his fuckin mouth
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas dont start fights
And niggas always gotta high cap
Showin all his boys how he shot em
But real gangsta-ass niggas dont flex nuts
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas know they got em
And everythings cool in the mind of a gangsta
Cuz gangsta-ass niggas think deep
Up three-sixty-five a year 24/7
Cuz real gangsta ass niggas dont sleep

I've been trying to find the words to explain to the gangs how they should be acting, and I think this sums it all up pretty well. Think about it.