Aggression vs. Discussion..and some other things

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From almost the exact day I arrived in the Crack Den and began roleplaying, I have encountered several misfortunes, and as a result I've come to the decision to start this topic in hopes of resolving all of your complaints, or at least giving you a better insight of my unique OOC characteristics - then perhaps even give you the information you need so that if a new problem is to arise, we can solve it in a logical, harmless way. 😀 However, before starting would like to make one more opening statement..on top of this one.

I know I am an egomaniac with a tendency to say certain things that will most often make one irate, but there are two things I would like to get straight with anyone who reads this; Firstly, at least I can admit it. Second - Don't expect it to change..my intentions are not to offend you in anyway, it is merely the type of person I am. I didn't change for my family, for school, or even for past partners, so there is no possible way it will change for a group of various strangers. Now, onto the topic at hand..

Aggression vs. Discussion

I've already practically summarized this little bit in the paragraph I wrote above, but just to make it a tad more vivid for all of you I will elaborate the statement into a second paragraph. When I am having a conversation with you in OOC context and I say something that offends you in any way, do not take it to heart - I'm saying what's on my mind, when it's on my mind, and I see no purpose in 'sweet-coating' anything in this world, that's the definition of assertive, after all..however if I do offend you, there is nothing wrong with you calmly informing me of so. Even though it is in my nature to speak in such a manner, I do not enjoy harming anothers' feelings OOCly (ICly it is quite enjoyable, of course). If you are still reading this, continue below and you will find the "Some other things" section of this topic.

Some Other Things

Have I unadded you?
Don't take it personal if I have, I merely don't see the purpose in keeping people on my contacts list if I do not regularly associate myself with them. The Crack Den is not the only place I visit on a regular basis, seeing as I am in the process of managing two other groups (one in-world, another on a separate game entirely) and on top of my infrequent hours of activity, I am bombarded with a shit load of IM's immediately upon logging on - So when one person requests that I IM another person or if I accidentally 'X' out of one window and need to go to my contacts list to open it, the process of scrolling through dozens of names, half of which are people I don't even recall the names of in my memory, can be very, VERY frustrating. With that said, if you are ever removed from my contacts list, please remember that it is only so I can better organize my screen and reduce my daily stress.

Did I GodMod and/or Auto in a Roleplay, or do something in an unrealistic manner?
Most likely if I did any of these I will not have realized I did so and much like I stated a couple paragraphs above, do not be afraid to contact me via personal IM and explain the situation at hand - However, when you do this I will request that you take the time to give me specific details of what exactly I did wrong and how it is wrong, otherwise I will be unable to see the situation from your perspective and I will continue to believe that I am not at fault.
Notice: In addition to this statement I would like to inform the participants and observers of a recent fight I was engaged in at Lou's bar (I will not state the names of anyone, you all know who you are) that after having given it more thought I realized that I was in the wrong - for parts - of that incident, and I apologize for the miniature uproar that rooted from it

Well, there was something else I was going to add into the 'some other things' section but at the moment I am unable to recall what it was - so I suppose this will do for the moment, as I have at least managed to acknowledge the most frequent incidents that have occurred around the Crack Den involving me.
If anyone is still reading up to this point, I would like to thank you for the time you took to read over my discussion and if you have anything you would like to add, feel free to leave a comment below or toss me an IM in-world some time when I am online (though I'd rather you leave a comment here since it's easier to keep track of). I did come here to have fun, after all - and I want to keep it that way for myself, and everyone around me.

January 20, 2012 at 7:01 am
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